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	<title>Comments on: Being Flexible</title>
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		<title>By: bigdaddy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:18:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Couple of thoughts.  1) Agree, fellowship time is important.  Easy for that to fit in the YG parameters.

2)  Saying that watching a football game rather than going to Youth Group is saying that football is more important than Christ is a hard thing for me to swallow.  There are times that I choose to do events that I love rather than go to Christian events that are offered at the same time.  Sometimes I am choosing them and setting up idols in my life of that of Christ.  Sometimes, it is just a choice that I have made that I believe will be a good thing in my life.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Couple of thoughts.  1) Agree, fellowship time is important.  Easy for that to fit in the YG parameters.</p>
<p>2)  Saying that watching a football game rather than going to Youth Group is saying that football is more important than Christ is a hard thing for me to swallow.  There are times that I choose to do events that I love rather than go to Christian events that are offered at the same time.  Sometimes I am choosing them and setting up idols in my life of that of Christ.  Sometimes, it is just a choice that I have made that I believe will be a good thing in my life.</p>
<p>Just food for thought.</p>
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		<title>By: Robbie Pruitt</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 16:18:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have one set of initials for you: DVR!</description>
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		<title>By: Tom</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:45:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, I did hesitate in mentioning your thoughts because I didn&#039;t want it coming off as a negative because as I said, I can completely agree with your thoughts as I have had those as well.  It is such a tough call and probably each Church will have a different take on what to do.  But, as you started on your initial thought poll, this is a very good discussion to have and something that we should think through before it is right up in front of us.  Thanks Tim.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I did hesitate in mentioning your thoughts because I didn&#8217;t want it coming off as a negative because as I said, I can completely agree with your thoughts as I have had those as well.  It is such a tough call and probably each Church will have a different take on what to do.  But, as you started on your initial thought poll, this is a very good discussion to have and something that we should think through before it is right up in front of us.  Thanks Tim.</p>
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		<title>By: Tim Schmoyer</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 14:38:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good thoughts, Tom! I like how you processed through the decision.

I&#039;m not saying any youth group who canceled made the wrong decision, only that my conviction was that we should still have it. However, as you mentioned, we did alter the evening a bit by getting together early (YG starts at 6:30, the game started at 5:45) and watched it instead of our normal opening game/activity time. Around 7:15, though, we turned it off and went with our normal lesson and discussion, and turned it back on when we were finished. The students knew that was the plan ahead of time and the 5 that showed up (as opposed to the 30-40 that usually come) were there because they were not interested in football. The others wanted to see the entire game without turning it off, so they didn&#039;t come, which is fine -- that&#039;s their choice.

Thanks for posting your thoughts, Tom! Good discussion to have and think through.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good thoughts, Tom! I like how you processed through the decision.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not saying any youth group who canceled made the wrong decision, only that my conviction was that we should still have it. However, as you mentioned, we did alter the evening a bit by getting together early (YG starts at 6:30, the game started at 5:45) and watched it instead of our normal opening game/activity time. Around 7:15, though, we turned it off and went with our normal lesson and discussion, and turned it back on when we were finished. The students knew that was the plan ahead of time and the 5 that showed up (as opposed to the 30-40 that usually come) were there because they were not interested in football. The others wanted to see the entire game without turning it off, so they didn&#8217;t come, which is fine &#8212; that&#8217;s their choice.</p>
<p>Thanks for posting your thoughts, Tom! Good discussion to have and think through.</p>
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